nowadays i am giving deep thoughts to what i should do after i get married.
You see the situation is something like this.
My husband R is in the army and lives 1.5 hours away from my city in a place that is not even a village. He gets bored there. I have just started working this month with a very decent salary. we are getting married in nov inshallah and after that i would either have to leave my job and live with him or continue with my job, live at my parents` place and visit him on the weekends (i do not drive so will have to learn how to drive as well as buy a car). R gets only Sundays off .. which being in the army are sometimes off as well.i can go to him on fridays after work and then drive to work on monday morning.Let me mention that ours is a love marriage and we have been together for 10 years now.. so practically all our adult life. We have always lived in different cities except for the first two years which were college years and we were not in love at that time.. just friends. We would love to live together
so difficult decision to make.. i still have time :S
3 comments:
I was just going through Shahnaz's blog to find yours'.
Nice blog you have.
Coming to the point here.
Well...
Take some post-marriage leaves from your work-place and see if you can live in the 'not-even-a-village'. If you could survive, then leave the job, otherwise join it after holidays.
BTW: Its fun to live in a Cantt.
oh i would survive for sure.... i forgot to mention , it`s a love marriage
It's wonderful of your husband to let you maintain your right to work, especially in a society such as ours, mashAllah.
I don't have very many suggestions. Maybe you guys could find a place closer to your place? Eh?
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